The Minority of One

by Sam Carpenter on September 3, 2010

Boys of remote northern Pakistan: Look into the eyes

The subject of minority affairs is a social/political concept that classifies people into virtual groups based on gender, sexual orientation, race, religion and so on. (Emphasis on the word “groups.”) Minority affairs thinking holds that the primary group is taking advantage of certain sub-groups who are therefore entitled to additional consideration (and as it turns out this additional consideration is usually monetary).

The argument for this extra consideration? It’s a human rights issue. Some people are greedy. It’s only fair. The solution to the unfairness? Government should step in to even things out; to force the primary group to ante up. It’s a perfect example of the politically-correct, and social justice is the latest buzz-phrase.

The preoccupation with minority affairs is not an example of systems mindset thinking and it’s incongruent with the teachings of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., John F. Kennedy and, yes, our founding fathers, all of whom pointed out the danger of group-tyranny, and that God-given equality trumps human-enforced parity. With this simple, beautiful Judeo-Christian concept, these civil-rights leaders emphasized that salvation lies within: that individual rights are sacrosanct.

In applying the systems mindset to a life-situation, some fundamental questions automatically arise. (In applying these strategies it doesn’t matter what the situation is: “Reality works the same way everywhere, all the time.”) Considering that everything in life is a component of one system or another, here are the systems mindset “hoops” to be negotiated:

  • What are the down-and-dirty mechanics of the dysfunctional system? Has the problem been reduced to its simplest operational structure?
  • Is this particular problem really the issue? Or is something else going on?
  • Could this problem be caused by a lack of direction?
  • Could this problem be caused by unnecessary complication?
  • Can the dysfunctional system be fixed or would eliminating the system altogether be the best solution?

I ask the above questions about minority affairs thinking and conclude the concept is fallacious. Without feeling the burden of having to knuckle-down to its precepts, here’s how I interact with another person one-on-one: First, I look directly into the other’s eyes. (Two engaged sets of glistening eyes comprise the ultimate human connection point: the mysterious common-place we all share.) Then I make judgments about that person based on that person, not because he or she belongs to some human-devised sub-group. And if this person requests special treatment because he or she belongs to a particular race, color, religion or gender, they diminish themselves.

So, I reject PC-approved minority affairs thinking. This simple positioning always feels right and is superbly effective in my own daily life. The young, the aged, the disabled? Of course each gets my special attention and each should have the utmost protection of the law.

But let’s delve deeper into this reasoning by asking some uncomfortable questions about minority affairs:

  • If you consider yourself to be a member of a minority group deserving special attention, who exactly comprises the oppressive majority? Describe who they are and exactly what they’re doing to hold you back. No generalities. Give numbers. Be specific.
  • Is the heterosexual white male the oppressing majority? If so, why not condense the current enormous collection of PC-recognized disadvantaged groups into a single minority that is defined as “anyone who is not a white heterosexual male?”
  • My daughter Jennifer is half Puerto Rican. Does this make her a member of a minority group? If so, which one? Jenny is married to an “Anglo.” Does that make my two grandchildren members of yet another minority? If so, which one?
  • Our society overflows with aggrieved sub-groups. As each faction demands consideration, do these considerations quietly impinge on the individual rights of everyone else?
  • An activist organization that lobbies for social justice for a particular sub-group is a singular entity. Is there a danger this entity will take on a life of its own so its own survival depends on an ”overt cultivation of the aggrieved?”

Per systems mindset thinking, when there are no clear answers to questions about a contention, it is probable the contention is flawed. In struggling with the above questions and many others, it seems to me the social system of minority affairs is non-directional, too complex and a minefield of subjective judgment. Minority affairs – most often inflamed by government legislative and judicial proclamation – segregates us into victim-groups. It’s an emotional and monetary drain on all parties and society as a whole. Maybe the worst part of these arbitrary disengagements is the catch-22 trap in which people who choose to see themselves as victims automatically relegate themselves into a second-tier societal ranking.

The systems mindset analysis strips away the superfluous, fearlessly ignores pre-conceived notions and approaches life from a purely mechanical vantage point. Forget convoluted philosophy and it-should-be-this-way wishful thinking. For today, let’s never mind trying to change the world and instead focus on the hard details of our own lives where actual improvement can be accomplished with the people standing directly in front of us.

And if we insist there must be a sub-system of  minorities within our primary cultural system, let’s get right down to it and recognize the ultimate minority, the minority of the individual. Let each of us be a minority; each protected under law and each carrying the equal cachet of the minority of one.

(Photo by Sam Carpenter, in a nameless village on the banks of the Indus River, Northwest Frontier Province, Pakistan, 2003.)

Posted on September 3, 2010

{ 8 comments… read them below or add one }

Kare anderson September 3, 2010 at 4:20 pm

Sam
You take a fair, unbiased look at each person it seems and that is great.
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Instinctively we tend to feel most comfortable with people like us (in appearance or other ways) – even to the point of who we can hear those better and have wider peripheral vision around those who look and act like us.
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This post is timely as it is going against the tide: increasingly american hang out with people like them (The Big Sort + Going to Extremes are 2 bks that cite this) and, as we associate with people who think the same as we do we tend to get more extreme in our views.
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Those most likely to thrive in this increasingly connected, complex and bottom up world are those who both hone their top talent and can collaborate with people extremely unlike them.
Scott E. Page has a great research-based book on the power of diversity

Sam Carpenter September 3, 2010 at 5:45 pm

Thanks Kare. This post was maybe the most challenging one I’ve put together so far. (I sure spent more time on it than any of the others…). Such a delicate subject and so many ways to be misinterpreted. Thanks for the book recomendations! I’m going to take a look at them.

Pat Gilbert September 3, 2010 at 10:25 pm

Sam

This is a great point. The more macro point on this subject I think is that the federal government has subjugated the small group (states, townships, small business, families) and replaced them with a monolith called the federal government. The problem with this is that the individual has no way of having the “Two engaged sets of glistening eyes comprise the ultimate human connection point” with a monolith. All that we hold sacrosanct comes from the individual not from a group, think Ayn Rand. The small group is where the real learning and culture comes from because the small group is where the individual can communicate or as you say have the “Two engaged sets of glistening eyes comprise the ultimate human connection point”. The Orwellian machine does not do this, in fact quite the opposite. From a macro point of view the key is to put the power back where it belongs at the micro level.

Pat

Sam Carpenter September 4, 2010 at 5:32 am

Perfectly said, Pat. Thanks.

Matthew Strong September 6, 2010 at 1:11 pm

Good call Sam. The minority of one. The individual.

We should beware any system that rewards people for acting ‘helpless’ or ‘downtrodden’ and continues to reward them for remaining so. Beware any system that rewards moaning, complaining or dislike for another group and encourages people to stay that way.

The challenge I see to this is that historically many groups have been ‘oppressed’ by others and often they were white males. The irony is that these same white males also oppressed lots and lots of other white males! I don’t really think we can ever right every wrong and rebalance every injustice. There never is an end to and eye for an eye approach. Ultimately being sorry, grace, mercy and forgiveness are the only all encompassing solutions and this takes many many many individuals on every side to have a change of heart and deed on a daily basis to work that system.

Ian November 5, 2010 at 8:47 pm

I identify and learn from all “minorities”. I don’t identify much with white men because I am not white. (Clarification: It isn’t a case of prejudice or racial hatred either.)

Sam Carpenter November 5, 2010 at 9:15 pm

Ian: What about “identifying” with people by looking in their eyes, not by looking at their skin color? The eyes are “windows to the soul,” right, something we all share? No one I know has a problem with blue eyes, or brown eyes…so, why do some have a problem with skin color? My kids are 1/2 Puerto Rican and I totally identify with them despite the fact that I am “white” and they are a combination of Black, Hispanic, white and Indian. Skin color means nothing until we decide to attach significance to it.

Ian November 9, 2010 at 5:27 pm

“What about “identifying” with people by looking in their eyes, not by looking at their skin color? The eyes are “windows to the soul,” right, something we all share? No one I know has a problem with blue eyes, or brown eyes…so, why do some have a problem with skin color? My kids are 1/2 Puerto Rican and I totally identify with them despite the fact that I am “white” and they are a combination of Black, Hispanic, white and Indian. Skin color means nothing until we decide to attach significance to it.”–Sam

I don’t have a problem with looks. I belong to a medium-sized multicultural, multiracial family. The identity problems stem from other differences. Adds: In that case…I don’t really “identify” with most minorities as a well. Across the board, I don’t identify with most people. But who does? :)

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